Let Kids Roam Free
Back in the ’60s, it wasn’t unusual to see kids out and about, biking around the neighborhood, or walking to the park solo. Parents trusted kids to find their own adventures and learn a thing or two about the world. While it was nerve-wracking, it also gave kids a little independence and confidence.
Feed Everyone the Same Meal
Dinnertime was simpler when everyone sat down together and ate the same meal, like meatloaf and mashed potatoes or spaghetti and meatballs. No special orders, no separate menus—just family food for everyone. It saved time, cut down on complaints, and usually made everyone pretty grateful for dessert!
Tell Them to Walk it Off
When kids scraped their knees or came home a little banged up, parents would say, “Walk it off!” or “You’ll live!” It wasn’t that they didn’t care; they just encouraged a little toughness and resilience. Kids learned that a minor bump didn’t have to ruin their day.
No Devices, Just Play
Without screens around every corner, kids had no choice but to entertain themselves. They’d head outside to climb trees, play tag, or make up wild stories with friends. Parents didn’t plan playdates or micromanage playtime—kids just figured it out.
Let Kids Solve Their Own Problems
Parents encouraged kids to work out conflicts on their own, whether it was a playground squabble or a sibling spat. They learned to negotiate, make peace, and stand up for themselves. Parents only got involved if things got really out of hand, which meant kids got good at sorting things out.
Keep Rules Simple
“Be polite,” “finish your chores,” and “respect your elders”—those were the big three. Rules were kept straightforward, so kids knew what was expected without needing a family rule book. Parents didn’t sweat the small stuff, which left kids feeling like they had some space to just be kids.
Say “Go Outside!”
When parents wanted a little quiet time, they’d send the kids outside. Rain or shine, kids knew the drill—grab a coat if it’s cold and run around until you’re tired. Parents got a moment of peace, and kids came back with stories, scrapes, and maybe a new friend.
Use the Car for Family Sing-Alongs
Before road trips involved movies on the seatbacks, car rides meant one thing: family sing-alongs. Songs like “Puff the Magic Dragon” and “Yellow Submarine” turned the car into a mobile karaoke session, with everyone belting out tunes. It may have been a little loud, but it kept the mood light and fun.
Teach by Example
Parents in the ’60s didn’t lecture as much; they led by example. Hard work, kindness, honesty—kids absorbed these values just by watching their parents go about their days. That kind of quiet guidance made a lasting impression, and it didn’t require a single PowerPoint slide!
Enjoy Life’s Simple Things
Back then, “special treats” didn’t mean fancy toys or an exotic vacation. It was a popsicle on a hot day, a family game night, or a Sunday picnic. Parents showed that life’s simple pleasures were worth celebrating. It’s a reminder that sometimes, less really is more.